Monday, December 17, 2018

'Twas The Week Before Christmas.....


 We are down to a week before Christmas and all through my house messes are messing me up!  Life is still a conglomeration of sorting out bills, figuring how to earn an income, getting back to exercise to ward off a slouching back and stiff joints, a bit of loneliness, a few headaches, attempting a new teaching website, daily chores and "Christmas is coming", with all the traditions and activities.  

It is good to have traditions to keep focused and active through these days of cloudy skies and early nightfall.  

On Dec 1st I dug out my stack of  Christmas CD's,  and started recording the plethora of good and bad Christmas  movies.   

Grandson Jake came over Monday, Dec. 3, to help haul my tree and decorations from the garage into my living room, where they sat for a week.  My brain would frequently ask me, "Why is there a tree standing in my living room?" 

At some point during these days I designed updated business cards for piano lessons, a poster for advertising a Christmas special and cards for a possible new endeavor.... ordered them 1/2 price during a cyber week sale.  

 That Wed I received a surprise call from the nearby music academy to ask me if I was available to substitute teach a few lessons.  Sure!!  It  felt good to be doing something familiar and something I am equipped to do!

The week was cold; our church opens a warming shelter for those nights.  A lady friend and I volunteered to help from 5:30 thru 11PM.  It was a rewarding time of simply "hanging out" with less fortunate folks. It was actually fun as a group of us played a long game of "Sorry".  I was sorry I lost after almost winning.   

The next day was our annual Red Hats Christmas lunch at the nearby teaching school. The Terrific Trio got together for a photo.  Nancy, Gram G, Jo.
Saturday was  cloudy, though mild....a great day to get outside and decorate my front yard. It seemed like a good idea last year....undo the lights all twisted together and up they go this year.  No.  Had to untangle them all just to find out half of each color didn't work.     
Friend Kahana texted to see if we wanted to get together soon.  After some thought I asked if she would like to come over and help me decorate the tree standing in my living room. We set a time for Monday.    Ahhh....NOW that tree is a Christmas tree full of lights and ambiance! She and her hubby, Saul, gave me news for mid-June.  Something exciting to think about and look forward to!
 Tuesday, the 11th, came in blustery and rainy.  I had an eye exam scheduled for mid afternoon.  But good old fashioned roast beef with veggies was also on my mind. So that went in the oven in the morning.  By late afternoon I was driving home through rain and glaring lights with thoughts of roast beasty dancing in my head.  Yum!  And good news of no damage to my eyes from the fall on my forehead 3 months back.  Yeah!

An updated Iphone has been on my mind for several months.  The grandkids are appalled at my Iphone 4 and lately it feels outdated to me also.  But what a jungle of technology is out there.  I think I have settled on a plan and am in the muddle (yes, muddle) of getting all things set up....including my mental state.   

Friday accomplished an important tradition that makes Christmas special to ME...writing out cards and a small gift to my 20 grandkids and 1 great granddaughter! I think they will actually get their greeting before Christmas this year!  
Saturday we had our church's annual seniors Christmas brunch, carols and gift exchange.   "What did she get and do I want to steal it if I get a chance?"
You know you are part of a church fellowship when you are assigned to the cake cutting team....to celebrate Jesus' Birthday....


 Sunday was an enjoyable, though long, day of early wake-up, cake cutting, church service, service at the homeless outreach, short visit to new neighbor friends, then home to a 4 hour "long winter's nap". Oh, My! Good for a late night of  Miracle on 34th Street while diddling on the computer until 1:45AM.  Good night....

This has been a good 14 pre-Christmas days in the life of Grandma G.

"But you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; for out of you will come a ruler who will be the shepherd of my people Israel."  (Matthew 2: 6) 

Tuesday, December 4, 2018

I'M BACK!!, says Grandma G....

Hello Loyal fans of Grandma G, and new friends who click in to see what I am all about!

I woke up this morning snuggled in a warm bed and didn't want to get up.  Then I thought of the handful of ladies who faithfully attend water exercises even when I don't, and I inwardly smiled with gratitude for my circle of friends.  I got out of bed and on to water aerobics where 3 ladies were defying the years and getting on with life. I was happy in my spirit again.  

I have been in a slump since late September.  That is a polite way of saying that I have given into LAZY.   It has been easy to listen to negative, troubled thoughts and feelings. This has been a strange, difficult year for me.  Even at the start of the year there was something warning that 2018 was "off track", an uphill climb, an opposing wind, a struggling rock climb.   Now with the year almost over I can look back and declare, it has, indeed, been an off year, but also one of great strides forward in life! 

For now, let me be kind to myself and say that I have needed this time to rest, to heal, to refocus, to get back into energetic life.  I want to enjoy this last month of 2018 and leap into preparing for Christmas, a celebration of light and life!

    The challenge that has faced me (literally) since  September 18 is recovering from a fall onto my face (face dive) onto the blacktop in front of my home. I tripped over the in-ground sprinkler.
     Five days later I attended the wedding of my son at a southern California mountain resort.  I decided to adorn the "mountain raccoon" look....


   

 I am about 90% recovered but a few problems remain to clear up.



Enjoy a photo recap of the autumn season......


Raccoon!!

Bill and Amanda's beautiful mountain wedding... 










Flying with family from San Diego to northern Wisconsin for Louie's celebration of life....3 days after the wedding.


GeoLou family at his service..Sept. 29









Fall colors back home in the PNW....geese returning to the local wet lands


















Excursion on the Willamette River...boat houses..









Church Family Fun night....Frodo came to visit Curly....











 Thanksgiving Time....

















4 generations....Great Gram G,Grandma Deb, Daddy Zach, Rosie
















This has been a good "many recovery" days in the life of Grandma G.

"Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?  Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?--No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us."  (Romans 8: 35 & 37)

Thursday, October 11, 2018

RIP, BIG LOU.....




                                                                                      
On Sept. 5, 2018, at age 80, "Big Lou" passed from this earth.

He was my husband of 47 years and significant other for 54 years.   

We met when I was 18 and he 26, though I thought he was in early 20's.  We married 2 years later.  Within 10 &1/2 years we had our family of 5 boys and 2 girls.


Debbie,Burt, Angie, Gerry, Lou, Chuck, Al, Georgia, baby Bill. 1977



35 years later at the Grand Canyon



A little Louie                                               Athlete Louie
















 Winter Firewood Lou and neighbor. Walter....
Sheet metal man Lou....

   

  American Gothic Lou and Wife.....visiting Alaska...













Schmidt Men and baby Gemma at the San Diego coast







Open heart surgery 2014 to replace a valve and 4 by-passes

Recovery outing with the grandkids in central Wisconsin







Lou's last Big Adventure...
Jan-March 2015
Plane trip to Vancouver, WA
to visit with me, the Millers and the PNW










Shortly after returning home to Park Falls, WI, Lou became bedridden and tube fed for almost 3 years.  He was home where he wanted to be and greeted everyone with a cheerful, "I'm counting my blessings".  That is, when he wasn't pretending to be sleeping if he didn't want to visit.

Life with Lou was a mixture of blessing, fun, high energy, stress and trauma.  He struggled with alcohol and all that entails.  He loved me and our children, though he didn't always know how to express that. 

I am grateful for the good parts of our life experience, grew to understand the illness that haunted his life, and have concluded we did in the midst of it all, have a love story.  
____________________________ 

Lou always wanted to be included in family events even when all he could do was to "look forward" to them and not actually be there.  He did, however, make it to the last family event 
one week before his own.  

Sept. 22....Bill and Amanda's wedding at a California mountain resort

All the Schmidts were there, even Lou in his traveling sheet metal container.....


                                                                   















Family at Lou's celebration of 
life in Park Falls, WI  Sept. 29
Sheet metal urn, custom made by son, Al....




GeoLou Schmidt progeny minus 9 members....


Scene along the Flambeau River in northern Wisconsin the evening before Lou's service....
Rest in peace, Big Lou!  We look forward to meeting with you again in heavenly eternity.....




















This has been a sad, good 35 days in the life of Grandma G.

"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love.  But the greatest of these is love."  
(1 Corinthians 13:13)